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After another long Calgary winter, there’s something special about that first evening spent outside.

The BBQ is finally uncovered. The patio furniture comes out of storage. The evenings stretch a little longer. Suddenly, the backyard becomes the place everyone wants to be.

Tomorrow is Canada Day, and in true Calgary fashion, the forecast is looking… hopeful with a side of “maybe keep an eye on the sky.” Mostly cloudy, around 20 degrees, and a possible afternoon thunderstorm.

So basically, summer.

It’s still the perfect excuse to spend a little time getting your outdoor space ready. Not because it has to be perfect, but because it’s about to become your favourite “room” of the house for the next few months.

For me, the best outdoor spaces aren’t the fanciest ones. They’re the ones that make you lose track of time.

The Ultimate Summer Backyard Checklist

☐ Comfortable seating that invites people to stay awhile
Pretty is nice. Comfortable is better. If people can settle in, they will.

☐ Twinkle lights overhead
Nothing makes a backyard feel more magical than twinkle lights once the sun goes down.

☐ An amazing deck with incredible plants
A great deck becomes even better with lush planters, colourful flowers, herbs by the BBQ, and greenery that makes the whole space feel alive.

☐ A BBQ that’s ready to go
Because summer dinners should be easy, casual, and ideally eaten outside.

☐ Backyard games for everyone
Cornhole, ladder golf, bocce, giant Jenga, or whatever gets people laughing and off their phones.

☐ A cozy backup plan for Calgary weather
Blankets, a covered spot, an umbrella, or somewhere to run if the clouds decide to be dramatic.

☐ A backyard movie setup
A projector, a screen, lawn chairs, blankets, popcorn, and friends gathered under the stars. One of the best summer traditions.

☐ Lighting, warmth, and somewhere to linger after dark
Lanterns, candles, a fire table, or extra blankets can stretch the evening a little longer.

☐ Good people and nowhere else to be
The most important part. The furniture, flowers, and lights are just the backdrop.

It’s Not About Perfection

You don’t need brand-new furniture or a magazine-worthy backyard.

A few fresh cushions. Healthy plants. Twinkle lights overhead. A clean BBQ. A good outdoor rug. Maybe a basket of blankets by the door for those cooler Calgary evenings.

The goal isn’t to impress people.

It’s to create a space where your family lingers after dinner, neighbours stop by unexpectedly, kids make memories, and summer somehow feels just a little longer.

Tomorrow, people all over Calgary will be celebrating Canada Day in parks, at festivals, around campfires, and in backyards just like yours. And whether the sun shines all day or the clouds roll in for a classic Calgary surprise, summer is officially here.

We wait all year for these few precious months.

We might as well make every evening outside count.

See you around the kitchen island (… or maybe the backyard fire table…)

Erika

LIFESTYLE | Around the Kitchen Island (3)

This Friday, my son graduates from Grade 9.

I've known this day was coming for months, of course. It's been on the calendar, we've received the emails, and we've talked about what high school will look like next year. But now that it's actually here, I find myself wondering the same thing so many parents do when they reach a milestone like this: how did we get here so quickly?

I know every parent says it, but it genuinely feels like yesterday that he was starting kindergarten. Back then, the milestones felt easy to spot. There were first days of school, lost teeth, bike rides without training wheels, school concerts, and all of the moments that come with raising young kids. Somewhere along the way, though, the milestones became quieter and a little less obvious. They showed up in different ways.

This year, for example, he became taller than me. I knew it was coming, but that didn't stop me from feeling emotional when it happened. There was no ceremony or announcement, just a moment where I looked at him and realized that another chapter had quietly come and gone. Looking back, parenting seems to be full of moments like that. They often don't feel significant when they're happening, but somehow they become the memories we hold onto the most.

That's part of what makes graduations so emotional. We show up to celebrate the graduate, and rightly so. They've worked hard, they've grown, and they've reached an important milestone. But somewhere between the speeches, the photos, and the ceremony itself, parents inevitably start reflecting on the journey that brought everyone to that point.

I think about the years of lunches packed, practices attended, homework questions answered, and late-night conversations. None of those moments felt particularly remarkable at the time. They were simply part of everyday life. Yet when you look back, you realize those ordinary days were quietly building something extraordinary all along.

Maybe that's why graduation feels less like an ending and more like a pause. It's an opportunity to look back before looking ahead. To appreciate how much growth has happened, not just in our children, but in ourselves as parents too.

As excited as I am to see what comes next, this week has reminded me how important it is to appreciate the season you're in while you're living it. We spend so much time looking ahead to the next stage that it's easy to miss the beauty of the one we're currently experiencing. Then suddenly, you're sitting at a Grade 9 graduation wondering where the years went.

For those of you celebrating a graduate this year, whether it's kindergarten, junior high, high school, college, or university, I suspect you know exactly what I'm talking about. There is so much pride in watching them reach these milestones, but there's also a quiet recognition of how quickly time moves.

So this week, I'll be sitting in the audience cheering a little too loudly, taking too many photos, and probably trying harder than I'd like to admit not to cry. Because while this milestone belongs to my son, I think every parent understands that graduations have a way of feeling a little bit like ours too.

See you around the kitchen island,
Erika